Contrary to popular belief, there is a second honeymoon phase, and I’m not talking about marriage. There is a time when you stop worrying about if the person is the right person, and instead decide that this will be the person long term. It’s the swap from being on opposite teams, constantly testing each other, to finally deciding to be on the same team. Obstacles are no longer about “me” vs “you”, but about “us” and how “we” will surpass it.
In other words, the second honeymoon phase is the point of commitment. There is only one caveat. If one has mistakenly entered this phase before the other, havoc awaits.